Le 4eme Commandement

" Dans la vie, on n’a pas seulement besoin d’avoir des parents excellents en tout.  

Le plus important c’est d’être un bon enfant capable de défendre ses parents, de couvrir leurs défauts et d’ajouter une qualité dans ce qu’ils n’ont pas pu bien faire.  

Bénis tes parents même s’ils ne t’ont pas permit de grandir selon tes souhaits. 

En te donnant la vie ils ont accompli la volonté de Dieu et t’ont offert le monde et ses opportunités ! Sois toujours reconnaissant pour cette grâce même si vous avez des opinions differentes! 

Fais très attention aux paroles qui sortent de ta bouche à l’égard de ton père et de ta mère.  

Fais attention à toute doctrine qui te conduira à les maudire et à les maltraiter, ce serait un piège du diable contre ton avenir! 

Apres tout, Dieu les a choisi pour être ceux qui te "donneraient la vie" pour l'accomplissement de ton destin, ne l'oublis surtout pas!  

Honore les et prend bien soin d’eux pour que tu vives longtemps et heureux !  

Ne retire pas fface pas le droit de tes parents biologiques à cause d’une mère ou d’un père spirituel, cela n’est pas biblique!  

Proverbes 20 :20 ; 23 :25, Matthieu 15 :3-9, Éphésiens 6 :1-3."

Auteur Inconnu

J'ai trouvé ce message assez profond et j'ai donc décidé de le partager avec vous.
Nombreuses raisons nous pousseraient à en vouloir à nos parents, à les mepriser, les rejetter, les haïr ect.
Mais peu importe les raisons, nous nous devons de les surmonter et avoir le courage de pardonner.

D'ou me vient l'inspiration d'ecrire ceci:

Qu'importe vos érreurs, qu'importe vos défauts

Qu'importe les blessures intérieures

Que m'ont causé vos mots

Qu'importe les larmes que j'ai versées

Ou le vide en moi que ton absence a créé

Qu'importe nos mal-entendus, qu'importe nos disputes

Qu'importe toutes ces fois où à mon égard tu as été injuste

Qu'importe les mépris, qu'importe les injures

Qu'importe les mots doux et gentils que tu n'as jamais su me dire

Qu'importe ta violence, qu'importe ton intolérence

Qu'importe toutes les fois où tu as perdu ton sang froid

Qu'importe qui tu es, qu'importe ce que tu as fais

Aucun de nous n'est parfait,

Ni moi, ni toi, personne ne l'est!

On ne choisit pas ses parents, on ne choisit pas sa famille

Et aujourd'hui si vous êtes mes parents c'est parce que l'Eternel Dieu l'a permis

Sur ce je vous dois du respect!

Et pour la vie, Papa/Maman je vous dis Merci!

Qu'importe tout le reste, mon coeur vous le pardonne! :)

"Honore ton père et ta mère afin d'avoir longue vie sur la terre que le Seigneur ton Dieu te donne"-Exode 20:12 (4eme Commandement)

Go and FLOURISH!

Alvezido :-)

The Romantic Desert (Letters From God)

This is for all my beautiful single ladies/women out there!
This poem helped me soooo much and still does everytime I read it.
I hope you will all start enjoying the Romantic Desert! :-)
Be blessed!

I am in the romantic desert,

Where I can't have a man for dessert,

Where I am invisible to those I like

But more than visible to those I dislike,

Where I could use some companionship

But instead all that guys can offer is friendship.

I'm stuck in this place,

Where I can't meet a new face,

Where the one that I do encounter

Has nothing but drama to offer.

He is cute, smart, and tall,

But he is just not with it at all.

I just want a man,

Who will serve as my significant other,

But it seems that every man

Is either married or living with his partner.

I cry out to the Lord:

"What is this horrible place,

Where the goods are unavailable?

There is no one, not even one.

I can't even get a date,

A look, or an impressive compliment."

And light is shed on the nature of the desert,

Turning this barren place into a sweet dessert.

The desert is here to keep me focused

On the Man who won't make me confused.

The desert is there to build me up

Into the woman He can lift up.

The desert is here to make me a wife.

It is actually here to better my life.

In Letters From God, by a beautiful and strong woman of God, my cousin Nya Huguette Ebama.
Do yourself a favor, go out there and buy her book! So worth it!

Go and Flourish! ;-)

Life- Brian Dyson

Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.

You name them- work, family, health, friends and spirit- and you're keeping all of these in the air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four balls- family, health, friends and spirit- are made of glass.

If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered.

They will never be the same.

You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.

How?

Don't undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others. It is because we are different that each of us is special.

Don't set your goals by what other people deem important. Only you know what is best for you.

Don't take for granted the things closest to your heart. Cling to them as you would to life, for without them, life is meaningless.

Don't let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past or for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live ALL the days of your life.

Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.

Don't be afraid to admit that you are less than perfect. It is this fragile thread that binds us to each other.

Don't be afraid to encounter risks. It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.

Don't shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find. the quickest way to receive love is to give; the fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give it wings.

Don't run through life so fast that you forget not only where you've been, but also where you are going.

Don't forget that a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated.

Don't be afraid to learn. Knowledge is weightless, a treasure you can always carry easily.

Don't use time or words carelessly. Neither can be retrieved.

Life is not a race, but a journey to be savoured each step of the way.

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a gift. That's why we call it "the Present".

By Brian Dyson-CEO of Coca-Cola

Loooovvvvvee it!!!

P.R.O.G.R.E.S.S

In her book Never Give Up, Joyce Meyer said "Progress has a price; and becoming a person who never gives up will cost you."
As I am myself on my way to Progress, I decided to share this with you.

Progress = to advance toward a higher or a better stage

In fact, when I hear the word Progress I think of the words Improvement, Change, Development.
In order for one to Progress or to improve or again to change, we need to have a BEFORE (past situation), a NOW (current situation) and an AFTER (a vision, a goal, a future situation that we would like to achieve).
Progress is what takes your Past, CHANGES it to your Present and IMPROVES your Present to make up your Future!
Now, some may either feel as if they have been no change from their past situation to their current situation or that there was indeed some changes but negative ones.
If this is how you feel, do not get discouraged!
Drop your negative attitude, make the decision to POSITIVELY change that situation because Progress is all about POSITIVITY- a positive mind, for a positive attitude, for positive results!

In my Project Management Degree, which I am currently doing, we have been thought that an Effective Organisation is one that, through leadership, strives for continuous improvement (progress) in order to meet their goals and achieve customers satisfaction.
An organisation that CONTINUOUSLY seeks improvement is one that NEVER gives up, NEVER stop bettering itself.
Now why should this only apply for organisations?
Let us, just like Effective Organisations, make use of our leadership capabilities to bring about change in our lives. Let's create in us a mentality of Progress to satisfy our customers- God, the people around us, and ourselves (we are our own customers).

Moving from where you are to where you want to be and most importantly to where God wants you to be may require time, energy, lots of sacrifices, lots of effort, and may even cost you to lose some friends etc But remember you are not going through it alone!
If you decide to take the road of Progress to make the plans God has for your life become reality, you are automatically saying to God "Yes to Your Will" and duuuh He will be there to assist you :-)
So go and find out what needs to be changed, what needs to be improved or even developed in you, in your life. Find it, and get on Progress mode!

I am taking the road of Progress,
Progress for more Faith and more Strength, more Confidence and Patience
For more Love, more Wisdom, more Giving than Receiving
For more Self-discipline and Commitment, more Forgiveness and less Judgement
For more Listening and less Speaking, more of Living than Complaining
For more of Thee and less of me...
It may indeed cost me but it is so worth it
Progress for more happiness!!!!!!

"Nobody who ever gave his best regretted it"- George Halas
Give your best and P>R>O>G>R>E>S>S!!!!!

Go and FLOURISH!

Alvezido :-)